Is there anything else I can do to make them come around?

since ive started coming out of the closet it seems the people who r closest to me and my family are having issues. I came out to my best friends around november and they told me until i got right with God we ***** talk ne more (whuteva). weve told each other merry xmas and happy thanksgiving, etc. but thats only when i text them first. my best friends r brother and sister and whenever i contact the brother he always tells me he misses me n that he hopes to see me, etc. either way, he elborates a little bit n lets me kno hes thinking of me. but his sister never says anything to me except to reiterate the same thing i said to her and i was much closer to her than i was to him. and there's also the issue of my family. for xmas, i gave my mother a book about gay and teens (this is after she found out) becuz she ignores and wont talk about my uality. she said she would read the book and after she was done we wud talk. but in the end she never did. before i left to go bak to college she told me she didnt understand what the point of the book was or what there was to talk to me about. however, when im away at school or out of the house during break, my mom and my brother have alot to say about gays, like how they can stop being gay any time they want and all sorts of other bullshyt. but when im there they dont say anything so i dont even have a chance to defend myself...i want to call them out on it but i kno theyll just deny it. What im asking is have i done everything possible in my power to make these ppl come around? and please comment and give advice concerning the situation. thanx