Whats going on, is this fate?

Right heres the story: At school I was in a relationship with a girl who I really liked, she moved away and we kept in touch. After a few months we stopped talking because it was impossible to carry on my daily routine and to spend time talking to this girl and it saddened me to think I couldnt be with this her because of the long distance... Anyway, 5 years have ped and since then about four or five times a year I just sit around and have a serious thought about her and ask myself 'Would my life be happier with her?' etc. and EVERYTIME without fail, when i have these thoughts she finds a way to communicate with me, whether it be email or facebook. when i dont have these thoughts i hear nothing from her, i dont think its a coincidence (< however you spell it :L ) i think theres a little more to it, is it possible?